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Phones

Phones

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Repeatingly

Repeatingly

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To Look

To Look

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Repeat

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Give
Give

Give

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Forgetfulness

Forgetfulness

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my phone: what-even-is-thiss: bobcatdump: jaskiegg: mellomaia: aphony-cree: beyoncescock: gahdamnpunk: Honestly!!! This is just psychological trauma in the making THANK YOU I’ve asked parents about this and they always say they are teaching the child responsibility and “respect for other people’s things.” If I point out that the child accidentally broke their own toy they always say “I bought them that toy” or “my sister gave that to them.” The problem is that parents view all possessions as not really belonging to the child. A part of them always seems to think that the adult who provided the money is the real owner If a parent breaks a dish they see it as breaking something that already belonged to them, but if a child breaks it they see it as the child breaking something that belonged to the parents People raising children need to realize that household possessions belong to the entire household. If everyone has to use that plate then it belongs to everyone and anyone can have a forgivable accident with it. It’s okay to deem certain possessions as just yours and ask everyone in the house to respect that, but extend the same respect to your child’s belongings Big mood. I know most of these are talking about little little kids, but here’s a tale from middle school. I had forgotten to charge my phone one night, and this was back when cell phones used to beep loudly when they were low on battery. I kept hearing the noise throughout the afternoon and not recognizing what it was because I’d never heard it before. When I finally did realize what it was, I was in science class and my fellow classmates were making presentations. I reached into my bag to try to turn off the phone, and then the low-battery sound went off, loud enough for the teacher to hear it. She confiscated my phone in front of everyone, and I didn’t get it back until after the weekend because it was a Friday. I was really embarrassed, especially to tell my parents. When I got my phone back that Monday, my teacher said it was important for me to learn this lesson now since in college they wouldn’t tolerate phones going off. Fast forward to when I was in college, any time someone’s phone went off, either the professor would tell them to turn it off, or they would say, “Oh, my bad,” and turn it off themselves, and everyone would move on. I even had a professor who danced around while someone’s phone went off, and it was a welcome moment of levity during the lecture. I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious. God I’ve been reading these posts for a while and each time I am struck with the realization that certainly not all parents were supposed to be a parent “I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious.”YES this The problem is, even if families are forgiving the culture around children still effects the child. I use myself as proof of that. A few times between the ages of 4 and 18 I broke things. I broke my grandma’s favorite Christmas ornament. Her first question was: “Are you hurt?” and when I apologized profusely she said “I’m just glad you weren’t hurt.” I broke a few plates. I broke a couple glasses. Every time my dad’s first response was “Did you get cut?” the second step was cleaning up the broken bits, and the third was a discussion of what led to me breaking it and how I could avoid doing that in the future. Same with spills. Same with stains. My biggest “punishment” from my immediate family was being taught how to clean up the mess I made and being shown in detail how to avoid the same mistake in the future if it was avoidable. There were consequences for my actions, but they were the direct result of those actions and nothing much beyond that. My family tried so hard to teach me how to deal with accidents in a healthy way. They were patient. They treated every slip-up as a learning opportunity. They showed me a lot of love. The other adults still got to me. Teachers still punished and publicly shamed me and other students for our mess-ups. Extended family members outside of my small supportive circle still yelled at me. My friends’ parents still got mad. To the point where whenever I messed up my first instinct was that my dad or grandparents were going to punish me, or yell at me, or hit me, even though they never did. They just didn’t. They always responded with patience and an attitude of “I’m glad you’re safe and I want to help you learn from this.” And I was still afraid of messing up. Mortified. Expecting the worst every time. It’s like… we need to change the culture around this, man. Completely.
my phone: what-even-is-thiss:

bobcatdump:

jaskiegg:

mellomaia:

aphony-cree:

beyoncescock:

gahdamnpunk:

Honestly!!! This is just psychological trauma in the making


THANK YOU

I’ve asked parents about this and they always say they are teaching the child responsibility and “respect for other people’s things.” If I point out that the child accidentally broke their own toy they always say “I bought them that toy” or “my sister gave that to them.”
The problem is that parents view all possessions as not really belonging to the child. A part of them always seems to think that the adult who provided the money is the real owner
If a parent breaks a dish they see it as breaking something that already belonged to them, but if a child breaks it they see it as the child breaking something that belonged to the parents 
People raising children need to realize that household possessions belong to the entire household. If everyone has to use that plate then it belongs to everyone and anyone can have a forgivable accident with it. It’s okay to deem certain possessions as just yours and ask everyone in the house to respect that, but extend the same respect to your child’s belongings

Big mood. I know most of these are talking about little little kids, but here’s a tale from middle school. I had forgotten to charge my phone one night, and this was back when cell phones used to beep loudly when they were low on battery. I kept hearing the noise throughout the afternoon and not recognizing what it was because I’d never heard it before. When I finally did realize what it was, I was in science class and my fellow classmates were making presentations. I reached into my bag to try to turn off the phone, and then the low-battery sound went off, loud enough for the teacher to hear it. She confiscated my phone in front of everyone, and I didn’t get it back until after the weekend because it was a Friday. I was really embarrassed, especially to tell my parents.
When I got my phone back that Monday, my teacher said it was important for me to learn this lesson now since in college they wouldn’t tolerate phones going off. Fast forward to when I was in college, any time someone’s phone went off, either the professor would tell them to turn it off, or they would say, “Oh, my bad,” and turn it off themselves, and everyone would move on. I even had a professor who danced around while someone’s phone went off, and it was a welcome moment of levity during the lecture. 
I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious.



God I’ve been reading these posts for a while and each time I am struck with the realization that certainly not all parents were supposed to be a parent

“I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious.”YES this



The problem is, even if families are forgiving the culture around children still effects the child. I use myself as proof of that. 
A few times between the ages of 4 and 18 I broke things. I broke my grandma’s favorite Christmas ornament. Her first question was: “Are you hurt?” and when I apologized profusely she said “I’m just glad you weren’t hurt.”
I broke a few plates. I broke a couple glasses. Every time my dad’s first response was “Did you get cut?” the second step was cleaning up the broken bits, and the third was a discussion of what led to me breaking it and how I could avoid doing that in the future.
Same with spills. Same with stains. My biggest “punishment” from my immediate family was being taught how to clean up the mess I made and being shown in detail how to avoid the same mistake in the future if it was avoidable. There were consequences for my actions, but they were the direct result of those actions and nothing much beyond that.
My family tried so hard to teach me how to deal with accidents in a healthy way. They were patient. They treated every slip-up as a learning opportunity. They showed me a lot of love. The other adults still got to me. Teachers still punished and publicly shamed me and other students for our mess-ups. Extended family members outside of my small supportive circle still yelled at me. My friends’ parents still got mad.
To the point where whenever I messed up my first instinct was that my dad or grandparents were going to punish me, or yell at me, or hit me, even though they never did. They just didn’t. They always responded with patience and an attitude of “I’m glad you’re safe and I want to help you learn from this.” And I was still afraid of messing up. Mortified. Expecting the worst every time.
It’s like… we need to change the culture around this, man. Completely.

what-even-is-thiss: bobcatdump: jaskiegg: mellomaia: aphony-cree: beyoncescock: gahdamnpunk: Honestly!!! This is just psychologica...

my phone: justcatposts: Bruce doesn’t want my phone to charge, so I guess I’m not charging it (via)
my phone: justcatposts:

Bruce doesn’t want my phone to charge, so I guess I’m not charging it (via)

justcatposts: Bruce doesn’t want my phone to charge, so I guess I’m not charging it (via)

my phone: Found this on my phone and it’s a couple of years old by Nicedoodle MORE MEMES
my phone: Found this on my phone and it’s a couple of years old by Nicedoodle
MORE MEMES

Found this on my phone and it’s a couple of years old by Nicedoodle MORE MEMES

my phone: Found this on my phone and it’s a couple of years old
my phone: Found this on my phone and it’s a couple of years old

Found this on my phone and it’s a couple of years old

my phone: Cleaning out my phone dump
my phone: Cleaning out my phone dump

Cleaning out my phone dump

my phone: Daughter: “Has anyone seen my phone?” Dad: “Yep, it’s on the couch.”
my phone: Daughter: “Has anyone seen my phone?” Dad: “Yep, it’s on the couch.”

Daughter: “Has anyone seen my phone?” Dad: “Yep, it’s on the couch.”

my phone: Daughter: “Has anyone seen my phone?” Dad: “Yep, it’s on the couch.”
my phone: Daughter: “Has anyone seen my phone?” Dad: “Yep, it’s on the couch.”

Daughter: “Has anyone seen my phone?” Dad: “Yep, it’s on the couch.”

my phone: my-phone-is-making-me-delete-stuff-dump
my phone: my-phone-is-making-me-delete-stuff-dump

my-phone-is-making-me-delete-stuff-dump

my phone: Wish this worked on my phone
my phone: Wish this worked on my phone

Wish this worked on my phone

my phone: 50 memes from my phone pt i
my phone: 50 memes from my phone pt i

50 memes from my phone pt i

my phone: Cleaning up my phone after 5 years!
my phone: Cleaning up my phone after 5 years!

Cleaning up my phone after 5 years!

my phone: Cleaning up my phone after 5 years!
my phone: Cleaning up my phone after 5 years!

Cleaning up my phone after 5 years!

my phone: angelfire115: zetarays: angeredthoughts: nobodybetterhavethisoneoriswear: polyglotplatypus: polyglotplatypus: im very grateful for the lessons in photography i was taught in stop motion class because just now they made it possible to photograph the stars with my phone in spite of the camera usually not detecting the light of stars because theyre so dim,,,, enjoy these shiny motherfuckers ok so if everythings normal, your phone camera should have a manual mode (sometimes called pro mode). in it, change the settings of the shutter lag to 20 seconds, then put the phone down on some stable, plane surface and press the photo button (usually when using your camera, the volume buttons can be used as photo button) and let the phone still for the whole 20 seconds.  (basically the problem with most cameras is that they dont have a very good light sensitivity in the dark, however that doesnt mean they cant detect it at all. the longer the shutter is open, the more light your camera takes in and the more burnt/light your pic will be, so in (literally) dark situations, make the shutter lag longer to get all that light you need! also i said 20 seconds but really you can make it shorter or longer depending on what kinda stuff you want for your stars) Yes this! Additionally, adjust your ISO to the highest number (mimics the film used for very low light and low speed images) And set your shutter speed to the longest time possible (on my phone it’s 10 seconds). Leave your focus settings on Auto, and if your phone camera has a timer option, turn that on (five seconds is generally enough). Plan your shot first, then find a place to set your phone down so you can get the image you want. The less light pollution, the better; you’ll pick up FAR more stars in your picture. Once you know what you want to shoot, tap your screen to “focus” it, then hit the button to take the picture, set your phone down, and back away from the “tripod”. Don’t touch your phone for a good 15 seconds, just to be sure. You will not be disappointed in the results, let me assure you. Not even a little bit. @tamberland THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING I’VE EVER LEARNED
my phone: angelfire115:

zetarays:

angeredthoughts:

nobodybetterhavethisoneoriswear:

polyglotplatypus:

polyglotplatypus:
im very grateful for the lessons in photography i was taught in stop motion class because just now they made it possible to photograph the stars with my phone in spite of the camera usually not detecting the light of stars because theyre so dim,,,, enjoy these shiny motherfuckers
ok so if everythings normal, your phone camera should have a manual mode (sometimes called pro mode). in it, change the settings of the shutter lag to 20 seconds, then put the phone down on some stable, plane surface and press the photo button (usually when using your camera, the volume buttons can be used as photo button) and let the phone still for the whole 20 seconds. 
(basically the problem with most cameras is that they dont have a very good light sensitivity in the dark, however that doesnt mean they cant detect it at all. the longer the shutter is open, the more light your camera takes in and the more burnt/light your pic will be, so in (literally) dark situations, make the shutter lag longer to get all that light you need! also i said 20 seconds but really you can make it shorter or longer depending on what kinda stuff you want for your stars)

Yes this! 
Additionally, adjust your ISO to the highest number (mimics the film used for very low light and low speed images)
And set your shutter speed to the longest time possible (on my phone it’s 10 seconds).
Leave your focus settings on Auto, and if your phone camera has a timer option, turn that on (five seconds is generally enough).
Plan your shot first, then find a place to set your phone down so you can get the image you want. The less light pollution, the better; you’ll pick up FAR more stars in your picture.
Once you know what you want to shoot, tap your screen to “focus” it, then hit the button to take the picture, set your phone down, and back away from the “tripod”. Don’t touch your phone for a good 15 seconds, just to be sure.
You will not be disappointed in the results, let me assure you.
Not even a little bit.

@tamberland

THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING I’VE EVER LEARNED

angelfire115: zetarays: angeredthoughts: nobodybetterhavethisoneoriswear: polyglotplatypus: polyglotplatypus: im very grateful for t...

my phone: Random funny sh*t I have on my phone #1
my phone: Random funny sh*t I have on my phone #1

Random funny sh*t I have on my phone #1

my phone: This is so me. I have thousands photos of my dogs on my phone.(via)
my phone: This is so me. I have thousands photos of my dogs on my phone.(via)

This is so me. I have thousands photos of my dogs on my phone.(via)

my phone: My phone will never die again
my phone: My phone will never die again

My phone will never die again

my phone: Plz don’t judge to hard I made it on my phone by LifeisFunny69 MORE MEMES
my phone: Plz don’t judge to hard I made it on my phone by LifeisFunny69
MORE MEMES

Plz don’t judge to hard I made it on my phone by LifeisFunny69 MORE MEMES

my phone: Memes from my phone- Dec 2017
my phone: Memes from my phone- Dec 2017

Memes from my phone- Dec 2017

my phone: Jesus Christ I have roughly 2500 memes on my phone-pt 2
my phone: Jesus Christ I have roughly 2500 memes on my phone-pt 2

Jesus Christ I have roughly 2500 memes on my phone-pt 2

my phone: Stolen Memes From My Phone
my phone: Stolen Memes From My Phone

Stolen Memes From My Phone

my phone: plantanarchy: ampervadasz: Unmute ! I showed this video to my 2 y/o niece last night and now every time I get out my phone near her she says “chicken. song”
my phone: plantanarchy:

ampervadasz:
Unmute !


I showed this video to my 2 y/o niece last night and now every time I get out my phone near her she says “chicken. song”

plantanarchy: ampervadasz: Unmute ! I showed this video to my 2 y/o niece last night and now every time I get out my phone near her sh...

my phone: So, I shaved after a little more than 2 years. My phone was first to not recognize me and I had to reset Face ID 😆
my phone: So, I shaved after a little more than 2 years. My phone was first to not recognize me and I had to reset Face ID 😆

So, I shaved after a little more than 2 years. My phone was first to not recognize me and I had to reset Face ID 😆

my phone: Lol I already told you no! Now stop playing on my phone smh by k_crown MORE MEMES
my phone: Lol I already told you no! Now stop playing on my phone smh by k_crown
MORE MEMES

Lol I already told you no! Now stop playing on my phone smh by k_crown MORE MEMES

my phone: Guys where is my phone?
my phone: Guys where is my phone?

Guys where is my phone?

my phone: Guys where is my phone? by drinkingcarrots MORE MEMES
my phone: Guys where is my phone? by drinkingcarrots
MORE MEMES

Guys where is my phone? by drinkingcarrots MORE MEMES

my phone: thefingerfuckingfemalefury: tdwhisperer: tdwhisperer: Naruto said trans rights My phone autocorrected Mewtwo to Naruto but you know what, Naruto says trans rights too. BELIEVE IT
my phone: thefingerfuckingfemalefury:

tdwhisperer:

tdwhisperer:

Naruto said trans rights

My phone autocorrected Mewtwo to Naruto but you know what, Naruto says trans rights too.

BELIEVE IT

thefingerfuckingfemalefury: tdwhisperer: tdwhisperer: Naruto said trans rights My phone autocorrected Mewtwo to Naruto but you know w...

my phone: Here are the first 11 memes on my phone.
my phone: Here are the first 11 memes on my phone.

Here are the first 11 memes on my phone.

my phone: Happy birthday, Imgur! Here’s 11 cat memes saved on my phone
my phone: Happy birthday, Imgur! Here’s 11 cat memes saved on my phone

Happy birthday, Imgur! Here’s 11 cat memes saved on my phone

my phone: First 11 memes on my phone
my phone: First 11 memes on my phone

First 11 memes on my phone

my phone: Getting non-cat photos off my phone.
my phone: Getting non-cat photos off my phone.

Getting non-cat photos off my phone.

my phone: Someone take my phone away
my phone: Someone take my phone away

Someone take my phone away

my phone: I’m sorry momma but tonight I’m cleaning out my phone…
my phone: I’m sorry momma but tonight I’m cleaning out my phone…

I’m sorry momma but tonight I’m cleaning out my phone…

my phone: Stolen memes from my phone
my phone: Stolen memes from my phone

Stolen memes from my phone

my phone: My rapscallion of a cat tried hacking into my phone; you literally can’t trust ANYBODY these days! 😼😹
my phone: My rapscallion of a cat tried hacking into my phone; you literally can’t trust ANYBODY these days! 😼😹

My rapscallion of a cat tried hacking into my phone; you literally can’t trust ANYBODY these days! 😼😹

my phone: My rapscallion of a cat tried hacking into my phone; you literally can’t trust ANYBODY these days! 😼😹
my phone: My rapscallion of a cat tried hacking into my phone; you literally can’t trust ANYBODY these days! 😼😹

My rapscallion of a cat tried hacking into my phone; you literally can’t trust ANYBODY these days! 😼😹

my phone: Dumping out my phone’s bowels #2
my phone: Dumping out my phone’s bowels #2

Dumping out my phone’s bowels #2

my phone: rubbesart: Inuvember Day 2: InuYasha!! this is my wallpaper for my phone pfff
my phone: rubbesart:
Inuvember Day 2: InuYasha!!

this is my wallpaper for my phone pfff

rubbesart: Inuvember Day 2: InuYasha!! this is my wallpaper for my phone pfff