What I mean when I say toxic monogamy culture the normalization of jealousy as an indicator of love the idea that a sufficiently intense love is enough to overcome any practical incompatibilities the idea that you should meet your partner's every need and if you don't you're either inadequate or they're too needy the idea that a sufficiently intense love should cause you to cease to be attracted to anyone else the idea that commitment is synonymous with exclusivity the idea that marriage and children are the only valid teleological justifications for being committed to a relationship the idea that your insecurities are always your partner's responsibility to tip-toe around and never your responsibility to work on the idea that your value to a partner is directly proportional to the amount of time and energy they spend on you and it is in zero-sum competition with everything else they value in life the idea that being of value to a partner should always make up a large chunk of how you value yourself 'toxic monogamy culture' uhh what? Meme

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found ON 2019-10-21 17:46:25 BY astrologymemes.com

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